It's not in one place. If you're new here, this is what you need to know about my blogs. The problem with putting all thoughts into one place is that looking for relevant information becomes a treasure hunt of sorts where you only find the dragon in the end, rather than the gold. Okay, so I'm not saying what I have to say from one day or one moment to the next is 'gold,' but my sense of humor is working overtime today... just bear with me on that, okay? ;)
This Free Spirit is one such place, the newest in the corridors here. It's kind of my safe place, in a way, though visiting the ghosts of the past is often the case. "Abuse Bonds Broken" is, for me, a way to help myself, and to help others, who've dealt with malignant narcissists. It's really not always about the worst of the situation, nor is it always just about purging the demons. My goal there is to help, but to also bring healing for myself in the process. And process, I do.. more times than not, this is exactly what I'm doing there.
The stories and such aren't often pretty. But life with a narcissist and emotional abuser rarely is, right? In essence--you're not going to find unicorns there.
Where Fireflies Dream is a place where the sun is SUPPOSED to shine a little brighter, where life is a little lighter, fuller.... But let's face it; as life smacks me up-side the head on occasion, the lines between the great and not-so-great begin to blur. In essence--you won't often find unicorns here either. But I'm trying...
All Things Ephemeral .... because the discussion changes. This was the original blog, the one where most of the laughter, contemplation, silliness, passion, and tears were cast upon the pages. It was overwhelming at first, really, because there were NO lines drawn between anything; it began as a place to purge anything and everything. This also used to result in many posts being deleted. Yes, I still do that on occasion, delete posts, but very rarely now.
Boo's Juicy Bits Well, now THIS one has gone absolutely rogue, I have to admit. It began when I started juicing, then evolved as I embarked on a healthier diet, then went completely rogue because of the health issues that have come on board. This blog... let's just say ANYTHING could end up here.
Why? Because the discussion changes! And because we live in a world that has become increasingly indifferent, where people can't 'concern' themselves with the emotions, experiences, etc. of another human being. This is not accusatory, by the way. It's simply a sad fact.
While not everyone is safely wading in that comfortable pool of ones own life, some are simply unable to step out... be vulnerable. No matter. These blogs... are just me stepping out of that comfortable place.
Basically, we have this same conversation about twice a month, sometimes more often depending on how much I put into my blogs. You see, she has ONE blog that she pours absolutely everything into. And that works for her. Not so much for me. So, on occasion, like yesterday, she told me I "Absolutely must" put re-share the links across my blogs so people realize I'm not always saying the same thing in all the same places. Okay. If I must. ;p She's a good egg, so I'll indulge her every so often.
