To be heard---is not a difficult or complicated request. And the weirdest part about not being heard is then when you take a moment out of your life to listen to your own voice, you find a unique opportunity to connect with your very presence in the world. Now, before you confuse this with being self-absorbed or a narcissistic "Need to hear your own voice," allow me to put it into perspective and context.
Perspective, Context, life!
Take a moment and read a poem out loud to yourself. Only to yourself. Listen carefully to your voice and imagine your voice not ever being heard again.. not by you, not by anyone.
Listen not to the words, but to your voice. Do you hear both the subtle and distinct sounds and nuances that make your voice completely unique? When was the last time you even thought about your voice?...?
Is your tone soft, clear, muted, or resonant? Do you hear emotion as you speak, and if so... what is it in your voice that tells the world where you are, how you feel?
Your very breath is in your voice...
What do you sound like?
So many people take this for granted. That deep disconnection from self is more evident when you sit alone in a quiet place and listen to the sound of your own voice. Poetry...or words from your favorite novel... what does it sound like when you recite them?
After you've read that poem, or those chosen words from a book (make it meaningful). Now, stop talking and listen to the silence that follows...
....Stop talking and listen now to the silence that follows. That is the absence of the sound of your voice...
Think about it.

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